“But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing a wedding robe, and he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a robe?’ And he was speechless. Then the king said to his attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness…’” Matthew 22:11-13
So...where else in the Bible do you hear about one who is considered unworthy, and therefore is bound and thrown out among others who are weeping? Where else do you hear of one who stands speechless before his accusers? Where else in the Bible do you hear of one who is judged unworthy to be invited in among the accepted?
Maybe, just maybe, this parable is about the One who shows up and says “no” to power. What if the Kingdom of heaven is like someone who is thrown by imperial power into outer darkness and what if the name of that outer darkness is Calvary?
Maybe, then, this densely plotted story is about how we ought to resist when power and the world try to bend us into shapes that we do not recognize as followers of Jesus. Jesus told this parable in the week before his crucifixion. He would soon face public humiliation, stigma, and discrimination that would try his soul. He would know that he was abandoned by his community and sense that he had been abandoned by God, and he would present no defense against those who judged him to be unacceptable by the standards of the powerful.
Because...the kingdom of heaven is like: a first century Jewish peasant who laughed at the powerful, embraced the sick, befriended prostitutes, and ate with all the wrong people, and who authorities and the powerful elite had to hog-tie and throw into the outer darkness.
What if the kingdom of heaven is like Jesus?