To answer before listening, that is folly and shame. Proverbs 18:13
Like most people, I have some significant regrets in my life! I have several verbal regrets. I’ve said things to people I wish I could take back, misguided words that have stung and wounded others. I feel terrible about those moments that I can’t take back. But I have no regrets in my life over listening!
I’ve never thought, “Why did I pay such good attention to that person? Why was I so patient and empathetic in showing them respect?” Why? Because listening does not lead to regret!
When I talk too much and don't listen well, I violate intimacy, community, and depth of relationship. It’s a problem that needs to be fixed. When I do this, I have to ask myself, “What’s behind all the words that violate the power of listening?”
Listening is a language of love. Listening creates value. Listening is a skill to learn. It’s a craft to master. It’s a gift to give. It’s a way to draw close and minister to others....No regrets.
No comments:
Post a Comment